Boots for the Brave: A Night of Purpose, Community, and Gratitude
A few weeks ago, I had the honor of attending the ASYMCA’s “Boots for the Brave” gala — an evening dedicated to celebrating and supporting the military community.
From the moment I walked in, the energy in the room was one of shared purpose. Advocates, veterans, and nonprofit leaders all came together for more than just a beautiful evening — we gathered in solidarity for those who serve, those who have served, and the families who stand behind them.
I had the privilege of meeting so many incredible people whose support and warmth made the evening even more meaningful. From corporate leaders who champion military community issues to nonprofit directors changing lives on the ground, each conversation reminded me that we are not alone in this fight for better support and recognition for our military community, especially for surviving spouses and families like mine.
A special thank-you to the hosts and organizers who worked tirelessly to make the event not just successful, but genuinely welcoming. Your hospitality and commitment were felt by all.
As a military surviving spouse, I often say that advocacy found me through grief, but last night, I was reminded that through connection, our stories become strength, and our strength becomes action.
I’m looking forward to continuing this mission with the people I met last night, and I’m hopeful for the partnerships and progress ahead. Events like Boots for the Brave don’t just raise funds — they raise voices, awareness, and the bar for what we owe our military families.
Thank you to everyone who showed up — not just in the room, but for the cause. Let’s keep showing up, together.
— Tori Seals
For those that do not know about the ASYMCA:
The ASYMCA, founded in 1861, is the nation’s oldest military-focused YMCA. They serve active-duty junior enlisted service members and their families across 12 branches, 23 affiliates, and 89 military installations in the U.S..
Core Mission
Their mission is to enhance lives in spirit, mind, and body by delivering programs and services tailored to the unique challenges of military life—deployed parents, frequent relocations, financial stress, and family separation. Services are offered at no or low cost, with no dues required. This assistance is available at many US military installations throughout the country.
Youth & Family Programs
They support military children and families through a robust suite of initiatives:
Operation Little Learners: early-education classes for ages 2–5
Operation Hero: free after-school programs
Operation Camp: summer and skill-building camps
Children’s Waiting Room: free child care during military hospital visits
Operation Kid Comfort: care packages like quilts and pillows for deployment time.
Crisis Support & Essential Assistance
ASYMCA stands as a safety net for military families during challenging times by offering:
Emergency food distribution (“food assistance”)
Operation Ride Home: holiday travel grants for junior enlisted families
Operation Holiday Joy: meals and gifts for children during the holidays
Thrift & Bargain Shops (Local Branches)
Many branch locations, such as ASYMCA Alaska and El Paso, operate thrift or bargain shops offering no-cost household goods, including:
Children’s clothing, toys, and seasonal gear
Home essentials like dishes, linens, and small furniture
Baby items: strollers, diapers, and more
These items are frequently donated or provided by partners, then distributed to families in need at little or no cost.
Why It Matters
Frequent relocations, deployments, and tight budgets can leave military families struggling to afford basic household items. These programs:
Reduce financial strain and support mission readiness
Help families feel at home more quickly in new locations
Promote dignity and respect by letting families choose what they need
